WOW cbtdad... sounds good. I wish I could be a month ahead of no Rtalks/temp checks. I will make that a goal too. I neeed to stop walking on eggshells and start standing up for myself, not allowing h to find reasons to be "mad" at me. I guess the way to do this is ... if a sitch happens, calmly tell him I will not accept his tone & that we can discuss this at another time (180). Or, if any "eye rolling" from h happens, to ignore it and do what I was going to do regardless of his eye rolling (180)..... am I doing this right yet?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
