Noticed he thanked you for giving him space. He only chance you have at getting closer to your H is to give him space and time. And the only way you can do that is to detach. It will be so hard at first, but gets easier.
It is counterintuitive to everything your mind and heart is telling you to do.
But it's your only choice. Where has everything else got you?

Weekend was good, thanks for asking.
W and I took son to movie Friday afternoon then had dinner.
Son and I went to my moms yesterday and stayed the night down there. W came down early in the morning to be part of him opening Easter basket. We spent the day down there and got back to hometown a couple hours ago.
Everything was same. No R talk, no fights, no arguments, but less awkward silence.
I'm detaching more this week though. So we will see how that goes


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it