Yet again i did it. I sent a happy Easter text to her and got nothing. What a b&^%$!!!! ^^^^^ You set yourself up for disappointment once again. You text and sit and wait for the response you think is probably not coming and then get angry when it doesn't.
I just try to stay consistent with my actions as far as the holidays go.saying high. i thought this was the best way to be. consistency of my actions.
^^^^ You wanted to be consistent because you wanted an excuse to text her. Do a 180 and not text her. If she is expecting a text and does not get one who knows what she might think?
I am getting to the point that I just want to send a real nasty mean email to her. But not there yet and do not want to be an ass as this is not how and who i am.
^^^^^ Do this and kiss any chance of reconciliation good bye. You will only validate any doubts she might have. Do not let your emotions cloud your rational thinking.
Well the other thing is i have her daughter staying with me for now. Her mom my W are not talking. I m happy i can help.
^^^^^ Make sure you are not subconsciously using D as a pawn. This could be construed as meddling in W's and D's relationship.
I just wish W could see what is happening.
^^^^ What makes you think she doesn't and she just blocks it out?
this was a problem in the past. But like i said before it is like no matter what i do in my W eyes it is all my fault for some reason.
^^^^ This surprises you why? It is a common train of thought.
just do not get her
^^^^ There is a good chance you might never totally understand her. When you try to understand what you deem to be irrational thoughts and actions, it will only cause frustration.
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