DBing, European style

[Papa4Life]

So HOW does it help me to know that she scored highest on "physical touch" on the " 5 love languages" when I'm not supposed to even initiate a conversation with her let alone initiate any kind of physical contact??? I dunno, maybe an arm pat once in a while? She has kissed me on the cheek twice (when leaving for her course) and hugged me maybe twice, but only after a couple of follow-up salvos to the initial BD.

And what in the world am I supposed to do about the divorce plan? Man, it sometimes feels as if DBing is just giving her all the space she needs to get out of our M as quickly as possible! Or... Maybe that's the idea? Maybe seeing that the door is open will let her feel less claustrophobic and trapped? Hmm, maybe there's something to that. God I'm a NEWB!!