I guess my point today was that I was trying to establish a boundary. Trying to understand if we are expected to work on Sundays, or only when HE feels we should. I was trying to let him know that I was annoyed not being able to reach him. Trying not to walk on eggshells and express myself without getting mad or in a fight (somewhat succeeded this). I don't know if my message was heard (as i usually repeat myself to make sure I am heard...i did not do this). Instead of askng him what "getting along means to him" which put him in a corner, I wish I had asked "what are YOU doing to get along with me?"
I sure hope this isn't a backslide that sets my clock back to ZERO... or is it a bit of a 180?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
