Is this cake-eating? 12

[bustingout]

I dont know NLW-I'd like to read the feedback you get. I still talk regularly with my SIL (she is my BFF and even lived with me for 3 months despite H not living here), and see her and her family and my BIL and his family on holidays. I make these plans with or without H. I also see some of H's relatives here where we live (as I have no family here). I always looked at it for the kids sake and the sense of family for all (myself included), I never thought that this could be construed as pursuit...