I think we can never really know the true nature of their R with OW, but I am sure it is not as great and wonderful as they make it out to be.
I remember reading here once the term "electronic leash". Yep, OW definitely has my H on one!
When reading your post today, I thought of this from the hero's spouse -
"Alienators obsess about the wife. They are jealous and afraid of you.
Give them freedom to ruin their own relationship.
The stronger you are in the face of a full- blown public affair, the weaker she will be, the more controlling she will become and the more she will pressure him. Let her invade his space, let her become jealous and controlling, let her become pathetic, and best of all let her bad mouth you to him. This will eventually put him in a position where he feels the need to defend you, which will frighten the alienator even more and she will sink lower into her destructive behaviors.You do not need to do anything toward them actively for this to happen. It occurs naturally when there is an empowered and Standing spouse who refuses to play dirty."
Oh yeah. That's what I'm talking about!
Sounds like you're having a nice Easter with the kids so far. Have fun at brunch!
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
