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Busting - just caught up with you - you sound very centred.
I am so happy for you.

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Originally Posted By: bustingout
Still awaiting some food answers! :-)

Originally Posted By: Cadet,Nov 2012
OK back to the food question
SPAIN - PAELLA
ENGLAND - FISH & CHIPS
GREECE - SOUVLAKI on a stick
GERMANY - SCHWEINHAXEN (spelling), also schnitzle
OMAN - $250 hamburger 30 years ago
AZORES - Turtle soup
NORTHERN ITALY - 7 course amazing pasta and food
JAPAN - YAKITORI
ICELAND - Butter
Turkey - Pistachio nuts, this was after the fall of Iran
I am giving you a food/places tour of the US

Albuquereque NM - All you can eat Mexican
Denver CO - Mexican with cliff diving entertainment
New Orleans - All you can eat oysters. Beignets, Jambalaya
Colorado Springs - 30 ounce steak-Never made it to the Big Texan in Amarillo Tx for the 72 ounce steak, free if you eat it in 1 hour.
Philadelphia - Pats Cheese Steak
San Antonio - River Walk, Mexican
Cape Cod/Maine - Lobster
North Carolina - Pulled Pork
Nashville - Grand Ole Opry, Opryland Hotel Indoor Garden
NY City - All you can eat Sushi
Baltimore/Anapolis MD - Soft shell Crabs
Florida - Fish
Coney Island - Nathan's Hot Dogs.

How am I doing so far?


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OMG Tumbling! How are you? Whats been going on with you? I hope you are well. Thank you for coming by. I have missed you!


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Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home
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Cadet, lol. Ok
Originally Posted By: Cadet
Originally Posted By: bustingout
Still awaiting some food answers! :-)

Originally Posted By: Cadet,Nov 2012
OK back to the food question
SPAIN - PAELLA
ENGLAND - FISH & CHIPS
GREECE - SOUVLAKI on a stick
GERMANY - SCHWEINHAXEN (spelling), also schnitzle
OMAN - $250 hamburger 30 years ago
AZORES - Turtle soup
NORTHERN ITALY - 7 course amazing pasta and food
JAPAN - YAKITORI
ICELAND - Butter
Turkey - Pistachio nuts, this was after the fall of Iran
I am giving you a food/places tour of the US

Albuquereque NM - All you can eat Mexican
Denver CO - Mexican with cliff diving entertainment
New Orleans - All you can eat oysters. Beignets, Jambalaya
Colorado Springs - 30 ounce steak-Never made it to the Big Texan in Amarillo Tx for the 72 ounce steak, free if you eat it in 1 hour.
Philadelphia - Pats Cheese Steak
San Antonio - River Walk, Mexican
Cape Cod/Maine - Lobster
North Carolina - Pulled Pork
Nashville - Grand Ole Opry, Opryland Hotel Indoor Garden
NY City - All you can eat Sushi
Baltimore/Anapolis MD - Soft shell Crabs
Florida - Fish
Coney Island - Nathan's Hot Dogs.

How am I doing so far?


Fantastic! Am getting hungry just reading the list!

I can only say I have just a few of those food memories...Florida, Greece, Germany, Maine and Spain.

And I am very intrigued about the $250 burger 30 years ago!!!!!!


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Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home
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Busting, you sound good.
Have you thought about what you want for you in life? You are dedicated to your children. What else gives your life meaning?

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I enjoy my life for the most part. Over the years and with DB I have learned to finally enjoy the moment and what I have now surrounding me. Family is very important to me and creating meaningful bonds with people. I enjoy socializing but am the type that would happily forgo a big party for a night with good friends. I love to laugh. I am still 'relearning' how to be on my own and avoid some social situations that I know still make me uncomfortable.

I enjoy my work tremendously. I am a teacher and a college counsellor and connecting with the kids and working with them as they journey from high school to university brings me great satisfaction.

I do want to find a partner to share life with at some point. And share my kids's joys and sorrows with. I find great meaning in the privilege to raise my two kids and I am happy to dedicate my time to their well being and experiencing their worlds with them. It makes me remember even more how much of my own childhood was spent in worry and not focusing on the moment but rather living with the 'one day everything will be ok'. I don't want my kids to live like that. I want them to live now. And I want us to do that together.

I enjoy time on my own very much. Reading, learning, good movies...

I guess thats it for now!


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Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home
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Busting, I bet you felt better about yourself after you wrote the post. You have so much to give to the world, and you are a blessing to those around you (and to me too.)

Focus on the things that bring meaning to your life and send away anything that might prevent you from being happy (i.e. your feelings about your H's behavior.)

Love to you, Busting!

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dear sweet busting

wow..love your statement about yourself... you are such an incredible person, so loving and warm..i imagine that your students and your children feel so cared for and safe with you.

i hope you realize how incredible you are, sweet busting. you have been such a dear friend to me. thank you. smile


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Busting, thinking about you. How are you doing?

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Busting, what an awesome Mom you are. You seem to be in a good place and I know the journey has been a tough one. You are one strong lady and I admire you so much smile

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