Yep, been there too. My XW started to text like crazy about 6 months before the bomb. She still does it but knows it upsets me, so she does it not as much when I am around to pick up the kids.
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09