Sorry you find yourself here but it's good that you did.

Tell us more about your interactions and what, if any, are her specific complaints about the M.

Life is lonely for the spouse of a resident. Read some of 25MLC's posts.

Keep reading here, read the book. Then read it again.

Start working toward detaching with love. Developing Detachment

Don't do anything based on your emotion of the moment.

Come up with a quick sentence to let your parents know you appreciate their concern but you will figure this out in the best way for you. Don't share a lot with them about what's going on.

Post often to get out of moderation quicker and to keep your posts on the front page. Comment on other posts so people get to know you.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss