Thank you Tori, Val and 2! I do feel as if I will be fine.


I know I will and do still get sad or frustrated. I am letting these emotions wash through me so that I can keep moving forward. I have no idea what I have set in motion if anything...I think my H is too far gone anyway. He just can't 'see ' me and the kids anymore. Anyway, I am going to do this for me and the kids.

Example: Today kids and I have a day off. H had to go out of town but he promised he would be back this morning so that he could spend the day with the kids. Of course not. He didnt even bother to text to say that he is taking the later flight back until late afternoon. I found this dismissive and disrespectful.We were expecting him in the morning.

Anyway, I didn't let it faze me or the kids. Just responded to this information calmly and politely stated to H if there is a next time, we would appreciate a text stating that you are delayed.

the response? 'absolutely'

my thoughts? Whatever.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home