Mr Bond, I have been thinking about the suicidal thing. I guess you are right, my wife does not seem to be in that kind of danger. So I will leave her to deal with her own depression, unless she confides in me about it there is nothing I can do.
Gabbysmom yes the therapist is having the MD at the office write the prescription. Thats where I think its a little odd because the MD has never met my wife. So its strange that he can dispense these drugs and take the word of the therapist. In any case, that is how it works and there is nothing I can do about it.
The stats I posted were interesting to me. I am sure we all understand the effect of divorce on a childs perception of what being married means. The last timd I brought that up, the tbeory was challenged so I thought I would post them for those who didnt believe it to see. As 25 pointed out, MWD mentions the effect on children and how they can frow up to be a WAS when they see it unfold in their own childhood. I feel it is important that we, or atleast I, not forget that. I was hoping my wife would break the cycle in her family, but now my focus is on my daughter. She HAS to break the cycle!
I have been doing really well with my wife. Been getting along very very well. A little lost because I dont have goals at this point. Well there is a goal tbat wife initiates touch but thats it.
Need to re evaulate the approach. But first, easter feast! Cant wait!
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
