And I should point out, just for the sake of clarification, that I'm not a stay-at-home dad. I work as a freelance translator and, when I have time to give it my full attention (i.e. once the twins start school in the fall), I'll be earning almost as much as W does. I do, however, think it might be healthier for me to work outside the home to ease the sense of isolation that comes along with working in a home office.
I am also making strides with GAL. I'm in shape, run 5k three times a week, socializing with friends more and I'm even more active with kids school and sports activities. Obviously I've got a ways to go, but I have learned at least a few things from DR and this forum!
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13