Time for the Loop the Loop on this rollercoaster!

[MrBond]

You're still preaching. Listen, we all know the stats, we all understand how depression works, etc. so you don't need to teach us anything. The problem is that these are things you desperately want to tell your W to get her to understand. And the bottom line is that she doesn't want to hear it.

So instead you bring all your stats and theories on here and people end up getting tired of it and don't want to hear it either.

Look, here is what you should do. If you think your W is depressed to the point where she's suicidal (which she really doesn't seem to be), then talk to her doctor or talk to her about it. That's all you can do. You can't force her to do anything. Just tell her you're worried about her and that's that. You can try to check to see if she's a danger to herself or others, but that's all you can do. Period.