It seems based on what my wife is saying to me, and what the book is saying, that I am already at the stage of needing the last-resort technique. Anyone care to comment?
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Welcome to the board
Get out and GAL.
DETACH.
Believe none of what she says and half of what she does. Have NO EXPECTATIONS. Take care of yourself, breathe, eat, sleep, exercise.
You are on moderation right now on the forum. SO post in small frequent posts until you get off of it.
Your W is giving you a GIFT. THE GIFT OF TIME.
USE it wisely.
Knowledge is Power - Francis Bacon
Keep Posting but have patience for your posts to show up