UPDATE: So I made an attempt at a 180 yesterday. Just my withdrawal had a major effect on her. Short rundown..
Told her anymore contact and I'd leave after the marriage boot camp. She called MC for an emergency session. Subsequently had a texting frenzy with OM that afternoon and evening. When I discovered it, I packed up some stuff and left. Told her I couldn't take the pain anymore. BUT I DIDN'T really leave. I drove around for a bit then came back home and sat in the backyard just watching to see if she'd call him or what. Her next text was to me though. She ended up coming out and telling me she wanted to work on our marriage and would NC. She told me to keep her phone and ipad.
This morning she called him to tell him NC and she was going to work on our M. We had a family outing to the zoo today and I could tell she had a rough day thinking about him and everything else. I've still got her phone and ipad. He hasn't tried to contact her today. I'm confused and scared to death.
What should I do now?
We have marriage boot camp in a week and a half. She has a very addictive personality and I don't trust her resolve.
