Just wanted to add this:

Originally Posted By: keep_going

Perhaps I will never be able to be friends with him. Should that be my end goal? Isn't that keeping the focus on HIM?


EXACTLY!!

M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017