Today, STBX came over the paint the inside of the house. I took off, went to my boxing class and beat the crap out of my punching bag. I got bruised knuckles to prove it!
Before I left, I asked where his brother was. Are they doing Easter together? It seems BIL has gone to crazy girl's home up north for family Easter. It should be interesting.
So I said, I spoke to SIL and she says the reason why they are divorced is because he wanted to date other women and wanted her to date other men. SIL says no way and filed for divorce.
STBX is quiet for a second and said, "My brother's dating is the result of a bad marriage. I don't try to understand him." WTF? Sudden gaslighting, amnesia and how can he spin that so quickly and justify it? This is a brother that they get along 95% of the time and they don't talk?
Guilty Guilty Guilty. Both brothers are cheaters and STBX is still covering for his brother.
Me: 49 H: 48 Daughters: 22,20,17 & 15 Moved out: 1/12 H filed for divorce: 9/12 OW discovery: 9/12 Finances settled: 2/13 Divorce final: 4/13
