Dear Busting, I am so so happy that you are feeling so strong, calm and focused on what is best for you and the children. I am glad that you are living, your singular beautiful life... regardless of what H chooses to do. You have such a beautiful spirit Busting, it shines through in everything you write... let that lead you and i believe your life will unfold in amazing ways. love you, dear busting ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( )))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13
You deserve nothing but the best - BECAUSE YOU HAVE WORKED HARD FOR IT. You have done all the heavy lifting, you have worked so hard on yourself and you are in control of your life.
So enjoy your day, today, now.
((((Busting)))))
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
Cadet thank you so much for your post. I had a big smile on my face while reading it. It means so much to me for you to say that. You have helped me so much on this journey, given me support, advice and insight... I have learned leaps and bounds from you.. Plus some really fun coversations!
NG thank you. Thank you for keeping me hopeful and compassionate and loving. I always think of you when I think of the word compassionate. You embody it.
You are my dear sweet sister and I know I am blessed to call you a friend.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
KG I have missed you. Thank you for coming by- how are you? Haven't heard from you... I hope al is well with you and your babies.
Thank you for your kind words and love. You know I feel a bond with you. Let us always remember to enjoy the NOW Xxx
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
Cadet I also want to thank you for all of the guidance you have given to me . And I loved the pics!
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
Busting, you've had an awakening. It's one of those moments in which everything seems clear. It's a moment in which you know you're being protected by a higher power, and that you will be fine.
Thank you Tori, Val and 2! I do feel as if I will be fine.
I know I will and do still get sad or frustrated. I am letting these emotions wash through me so that I can keep moving forward. I have no idea what I have set in motion if anything...I think my H is too far gone anyway. He just can't 'see ' me and the kids anymore. Anyway, I am going to do this for me and the kids.
Example: Today kids and I have a day off. H had to go out of town but he promised he would be back this morning so that he could spend the day with the kids. Of course not. He didnt even bother to text to say that he is taking the later flight back until late afternoon. I found this dismissive and disrespectful.We were expecting him in the morning.
Anyway, I didn't let it faze me or the kids. Just responded to this information calmly and politely stated to H if there is a next time, we would appreciate a text stating that you are delayed.
the response? 'absolutely'
my thoughts? Whatever.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
