Following on from my post above. How do I handle the constant discussion W tries to make about the future? I don't want to be apart in the future I want to be together - so how do I handle a question or comment such as 'that would be a good house for you' or 'when you have your own place you can do .........'.
At the moment I am just agreeing by saying 'true' or 'yes, I guess so'. But i must say it does not make for great conversation, and I worry my W thinks I am just not listening or taking it in.
If anybody has any suggestions please help me, because at the moment these conversations are happening by the hour and I really am not sure how to handle them!
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
