Wow, Sandi, you've spoken volumes, thank you. I'm a person who responds to this type of feedback, and I'm truly going to take this to heart.

My words ARE having a deep impact, and I will change that behavior. For ME, notwith any other expectations or goals in mind other than to no longer be that person.

I've printed out your immortal 37 rules, I read them once a day, but I'm going to start LIVING them now.

You're right: it's time to start working on becoming the best me I can be.

M41 W42
M 12 T 15
S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2
BD 1/2/2013
Living as roommates
Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13