Couldn't agree with you more, Finder. I know for a fact that my W is very easily swayed by what other people tell her, and if MC says, h"ey, it's okay to D if it's wha'll make YOU happy, then you should do it and I'll help make it easier for you" then, heck, she's helping eliminate my guilt in what I'm doing!

Things were already heading in that direction, and even as I'm throwing on the brakes of the locomotive, I don't need some supposedly well-meaning but misguided MC greasing the tracks...


M41 W42
M 12 T 15
S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2
BD 1/2/2013
Living as roommates
Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13