T... can you please explain the coffee/action goal/steps further?

I meant backed off of hugs/pursuit for months... I know I have failed on the temp checks/ R talks.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)