Well, if you check out the latest on my sitch...my H is all about getting the most physical touch he can...

The goal of coffee doesn't mean you just go and ask. You then write what things/actions you need to do to make that happen.

But, you really haven't backed off for months. Each time you R talk and temp check you set the clock back a zero. I literally have no brought up an R talk in 3-4 months. Always brought up by H.

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D