but MrBond.... as much as I would love to have a coffee with him, isn't that pursuit? I would love to pursue, but DR tells us not too. I'm confused.

One thing about my h, is that the distance/pursuit thing seems to make him go further away. Unless of course, its about business.

Tallula, I like your goals... they could be mine too. But, its been months now, that I have backed off and h still wont hug me. He keeps saying he wants us to get along, and we do now.

For us to have a better M, the pursuit really has to come from him. I want him to ask me for coffee, I want him to want to hug me, etc....

yes, I am paralyzed... scared to screw up again

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)