Last night W turned her phone over as I entered the room. I told her thanks I didn't want to see her new boyfriend text. She said no, there's just no reason to have an unnecessary argument. I laughed and walked off.

It's already been a tough day. W is questioning everything I say as if I'm trying to get a jab in. I'm at the point of telling her to stay the h out of my house. I'm tired of the stress and the limbo.

If she wants to tell the boys and end the marriage, so be it?

M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later