Thanks guys. My mom & sis are more than willing to come live with me when the baby gets here. They have already offered.

I guess the lawyer will also help with what financially I can do. H is almost out of money right now & we racked up some CC debt this past year. He got a huge paycut & we pretty much live paycheck to paycheck st this point. I was planning on upping my hours before BD and baby came in. So, while I have no idea how we will make it financially, I know I will figure it out.

I haven't cried yet. I really am done. I see no alternative.

But I do want to eventually let this nurses husband know what she is doing. I wish someone would have clued me in years ago. Plus, as much as I hate OW, I think I will eventually let her know too. I'll discuss all of this in counciling, but I do feel like she should walk into this eyes open. If she stays, then it's on her.

Clearly my H is a very sick man. I'm done enabling it.


M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D