GTO and NLW, wow. Thank you so much for your words and support. I dont know what I would do without this place and all of you.

I really really have no clue what the near future holds. I know I just need to keep my focus, keep myself grounded and respond in ways that I decide, not that are provoked out of me.

So last night H texted (he is out of town again until tomorrow) asking about the kids (it was like 10 pm) Anyway, I didnt respond and then I thought, no. I will respond in a way I would to someone else that I casually know. Friendly, respectful and considerate. I do that for me.... and, why would I want to have someone, even H, feel the way he has made me feel with his ignoring and dismissive ways?

So I responded very politely, Hi H, glad you arrived safely. The kids are already asleep. My regards to your family.

I will continue on this path. For me.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home