Sandi's tips vs bounderies

[willbwell]

I know that I can only control my actions/reactions. I am no longer bringing up any R talk. very hard for me. When he initially told me he wanted a D, I said I would not file under irreconcilable differences. If I filed it would be because of adultry/mental cruelty.(hurt and angry at time) He did not like this. I later said I would not file period.I do not want to be divorced. I want my H to figure it out and come back to us. Some days I am so patient and think surely he will see what he is doing.other days I think that maybe I am not facing reality. For now, I choose the side of hope!
Thank you for reading my posts and your replies!