Ooops! I meant to include the quote:

My goodness a tag - "explodes at xx years" could have been helpful! I certainly would have arranged my finances differently.

to the above comment, but it didn't work.


Bomb: 4/2009
M28 T32 Sep8
Me: 53, H:57
S20,D17
D papers filed by H: 2013
H didn't follow up with divorce
I completely let go ever since