I don't plan on telling him yet. My plan is to continue the weekend, see IC & a lawyer first thing next week. I'm done. If he ever gets better, someone else will have to reap that. Not me.

More than ever I see that this is all about him. I am extremely angry that my 4 year old sobbed last night and I even flipping offered to bring him dinner & he was WITH OW at his apartment. "no no. You are too sweet, but you don't need to drag the kids out..."

Yeah. I will have all of it documented. I have her texts & his to me. Lying. So, this would help with custody Should he claim he wants 50% physical. Not going to happen.

Ok, I'm not too calm. But, I am done. This is some messed up stuff.


M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D