reb,

I'm sure the "nice" evening you had w H & D's is something that your H is still thinking about. I wouldn't be surprised if it happended again & again! No expectations, though, right?!

Good job taking the high road inviting your H's friend to the bday party. That took strength!

I'm so glad you said, "I can live with indecision." I basically said the exact same thing to SIL today when she asked me today (out of the blue) how long are you willing to let this go on like this?

I have to add the words "for now" onto the end of that statement though.

And, thanks for visiting my thread too! smile


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.