There is no quick way to detach. I am learning this. I think I have come a long way no question about it, but still worry about what the "wife is thinking" and how will she respond way too much. I need to get out some more for sure, especially volunteer. It's something I've been wanting to do so I'm looking into that next week.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it