A BETTER FRAME OF MIND??????

[someguy1233]

I’m looking for ways to improve myself. This forum seems to have people from all sorts of backgrounds and personalities, so perhaps someone can provide some guidance. Forgive me if this isn't an appropriate venue for this conversation.

I know I’m slightly socially awkward. People have commented on it before. I’m not a stumbling fool, but I’m told I sometimes say inappropriate things. I’ve also been told that I’m not aware of how other people are feeling during a conversation.

I have a hard time making and keeping friends. I tend to hone in on just a couple select people that I’ve known since childhood.

I’m great at my job, but don’t have many “work friends.”

I’m sure some of this stems from a lot of bullying through grade-school and middle-school. But blah! I don’t want to blame the past… I want to change.

So…

How do I become a better conversationalist?
How do I make and retain friends?

I may need a new social atmosphere soon if a D is in the future. So, I might as well start making changes for the better now. It'll help me no matter where life takes me.