SA, I'm thinking she's DEFINITELY in MLC. I just want to make sure I don't use that as an excuse for me not making changes. I need to remind myself that The stuff she has said about my behavior is true.
Great insight here...Hold onto this^^^
She's always been an adventure seeker. One year we went skydiving for her birthday. She wouldn't accept tandem. Insisted on advanced free fall. She loves speed and risk. I like stuff like that, too. However, I hope she doesn't get carried away with all of this. Been there, done that...STILL loving it...and I've lived!
Everything I see points to MLC. Guess I'm gonna be riding in a gymkhana course of my own. Better buckle up!
MLC is an ingredient in the crisis. I'm not a fan of just labelling it that way.
(Way too many LBSers hold onto that label to deflect from their role in things or to avoid the pain of the regret they'll feel if they "own" their stuff in full. Too bad b/c they miss out on the chance for serious growth and that's the only upside to this ordeal.)
First, I don't know if it makes any difference since YOUR course of action is the same whether she's a WAS or MLCer or a mix.
But as you said, As long as you do YOUR work, it'll be as good as it can be.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
