Did you read DB or DR? There is no conflict between the rules and your boundaries. The boundaries are what YOU are willing to accept. For example, you don't let him talk down to you, etc. You do what YOU can control.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
