"And yes, I think they find OP's that are as broken as they are themselves. I guess it helps validate their issues."

Yeah, and then I spin about having this totally crazy, drama filled woman in my kids lives. Or that I don't want a revolving door of woman, cause this R has trouble written all over it. If she doesn't know he is playing us both, she will figure it out eventually. Just have to back off and realize that we aren't there yet.

Have a good one too!

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D