As an outsider looking in, and from the experience of my own sitch and H, it seems positive that he acknowledges he has a problem. Most WAS don't seem to be able to...at least in the beginning.
I am glad that you are not letting that fear hold you back right now. And yes, I think they find OP's that are as broken as they are themselves. I guess it helps validate their issues.
I hope you have a wonderful weekend with your family Tallula. So much love to you.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home