You're not overreacting, grabbing a 15 year old boy in the crotch is inappropriate in any context. Why your H feels that's funny or playful is disturbing. Have you ever told H that it bothers you and why it does? Have you told him about the molestation you endured and how it's given you a hair trigger in that regard? Be explicit about how you feel and don't fear that it's wrong or inappropriate. Your job is to let him know, his job is to respect it. If you do your job and he doesn't do his that does not reflect poorly on you at all.
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
