"That's the hard part about all of this. We each have things to work on, but for the most part we have had a great M."

Oh, and to expound a bit...I mean, great M, except unknown to me he was cheating on me in the first 4 years. Yea, except that part. I still believe that I truly haven't processed that one.

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D