Keeping the title, makes mama smile everytime I see it!!
So to recap a bit of the last section of that thread, I was not in fact, contemplating sex with H. I was concerned that having him stay in the house overnight could lead to another "slip" in that department. So, I have stated my boundaries...hands off the lovely preggo wife or you won't stay overnight again.
Now, he is actually going to stay over all weekend now. But, I am busy, busy until tomorrow night's egg dying family time. Honestly, it's easier for me not to have to pack up the kids junk to stay over for one night and then I don't have to deal with the dog either. I had to work today and daycare is closed. The only person I could find to watch the kids is my friend who lives 45 minutes away. So, he will get them and I had plans right after work and forgot to pack up their stuff. It's just easier. Tomorrow morning I sleep in, H will sleep in S3's room on the trundle. Go for a run, to an ala-non meeting, then a baby shower. H wants to go to the new church I've been going to on Easter, so that's cool.
It will also be great lesson for me in not being ON while H is in the home. That was one of the things I've realized I did while we were together. The kids always come to me for things because I allowed it. So, I just say "go ask your dad!" Novel concept.
So, boundaries IN PLACE! My mom is also a little mad that I'm spending easter with H and the kids. Our extended family is actually not doing anything this year, so there we go. I only have a mild case of anxiety over it, so that's growth. I would try to appease everyone and today, just deal. My family, my decisions.
I can't wait to see IC on Monday night!! Been a month, glad she is back from vacation.
Happy Easter DB family!!
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
