I had an interesting talk with w on Wednesday. She was pretty emotional while I was able to stay calm. We mostly discussed splitting our stuff and money. I am not sure why she wanted an in-person meeting. She is obviously pretty upset by the relationship going bad but shows no signs that she would like it to work in the future. I am not sure if her emotions are about guilt or loss or both. She made a big deal about insisting that i not be there for her move. I don't want to be there, but it felt like maybe OM would be. She completely denies existence of OM. She did say that I looked great and that I was on the right track of getting my life together so that I could have a successful relationship with someone in the future - implying that it would not be her. Now she goes on vacation for a week with her mom and moves out the following week. We'll see.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)