Sometimes I think being a capable, strong woman has it's drawbacks. H knows I'll pick up the slack, because I just do.

I relate to this. I think it made it easier for H to leave because he knew deep inside that I would be able to pick up the slack.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home