Oh yes I understand that. If you get a second chance you need to build a new relationship and definitely not do the same things as before. In my case, if w shows interest I will insist on counseling with a pro-marriage counselor. If she has moved, then I will suggest we stay apart during counseling and move slowly.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)