Don't fret over the ring thing. She may have worn it thinking she could "use"it if other guys tried to hit on her. Ironic, I know, but whatever it was, it was for her benifit while she was at the show. It was't to make any statement to you.
If she is a serial cheater, it may not stop until she seeks help from a professional who can get to the root of the cause. If she refuses, then no matter how great you are, there's always that chance she'll pursue another A.
When this A has ended, she may want you for her rebound relationship.
Sadly, Sandi.. I think you're right. For years she blamed this on us and our tendencies. She always says it's something that failed in our relationship that causes her to wander. But never once has she made an effort to work on our relationship before wandering. She's always come back, but it takes months. Then we're good for a while until it suddenly falls apart again.
I wish I could get her to see a professional. I think she has a slight alcohol abuse problem, depression, and previously diagnosed anxiety problems.
I don't want to sound like I'm just hammering on her... I know I'm not perfect, but I'm willing to do the work.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done
