Oh man, ours is a similar sitch. Mine just started in 11/2012, so looking at yours, I'll give myself a break for still standing.
Nothing here but understanding. Big Hugs!!
Thanks, Tallula. Unfortunately my situation has been going on much longer... I just can't fit it all in my signature. I first started posting here in July 2010, 6 months into my marriage. Either I'm a sucker or too hopeful for change. Maybe both.
Hugs to you as well! The support here is great.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done