Oh man, ours is a similar sitch. Mine just started in 11/2012, so looking at yours, I'll give myself a break for still standing.

Nothing here but understanding. Big Hugs!!

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D