No she did not...sorry I could not give feedback from her on the topic...I think she did not go there with me because I am so new to the sitch...
Yeah good to have that advice now...because I would have put up a fight about it...glad I waited to talk to her today about it...
She did suggested to keep the status quo until/unless I feel that I am not seeing improvements from it and think that I have given it the time and effort to see them...so I guess reflect on your goals of H's interaction and being in the home and consider how long willing to wait to see them and what positives might come from it and look like...does that help?
Might there be a time in the future that you could offer up dinner at the house, whether it be him stopping by...I think you may see excuses for him to come by if he really wants to do that again, or he may push away for a time being.
So far H has not interfered with parental rights with S, he has been helping fiancially no issues there...he been respectful he is not very assertive at all so not expecting him to push anything for awhile.
