urworthy - my youngest really worked at this - and his gf has a great work ethic, and is so encouraging. I am thrilled for him, but he did it on his own
My goodness a tag - "explodes at xx years" could have been helpful! I certainly would have arranged my finances differently.
I don't feel very graceful, but have become very proficient with large power tools, of necessity! A woman with her own chain saw and SDS drill. But thanks you for the compliment, I will try and live up to it.