I'm catholic too. A very close family friend is a priest and he has been counciling me. Married us, baptized our kids, etc. He has said that in the eyes of God, my H broke our M covenant and I should be free to do what I chose in response. That, by all means, fight to save it if that is what I feel. But, that I should feel no guilt or shame for ending it. I believe this with all my heart. I hope you do too!!
I will be thinking of you and your family.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D